當全人類(什至連自己)都知道自己o既缺點 ( 無主見, 亂發脾氣, 自以為是, 等等...) , 點樣面對同承認呢? 點解面對同承認係咁難呢?
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Russell Peters 香港
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三十秒
想成為一個好男仔，就要留意下面六點:
- 不打女人 - 任何男性出手打女人都是最差勁的行為。就算女朋友做錯事，最多與對方理論，動手打人是不可原諒的，返而是最失敗的男人。
- 有上進心 - 男孩子讀書成績差並不是甚麼問題，反而有沒有上進心，會不會為自己的前途鋪路，才是女孩子最關心的。女孩子最怕是有一個沒有責任心，一點也不可靠的男朋友。
- 有吸引力 - 男孩子不一定要俊朗才有女孩子垂青，反而一個有型有格的孩子，比一個樣靚但土氣的男孩子更有吸引力。所說的有型有格不是一定要緊貼潮流，打扮入時，而是他的打扮衣著配合他本身的外型及性格，這樣便能散發出他的型格來，自然能夠吸引喜歡他那類型的女孩子了!!
- 忌多言、炫耀 - 最怕男人老狗口水多不斷炫耀自己有多威風多富有，認識很多有地位的人。這種男人一看便知只有一張咀，信不過，又嚕囌，正常的好女孩都會怕了你!!
- 有男子氣概 - 真正的男人是要保護女性，不要怕事，要有勇氣去承擔後果，有主見和責任感，可以保護身邊的女孩子，予人有安全感，這才是男子氣概的表現。
- 有風度 - 男孩子一定要有 Gentleman 風度，風度是一個人細心的表現， 對對方照顧周到，關懷備至是男孩子應該做的，這不是刻意討好，而是基本禮儀。 一個人有風度的話，其實正表示他懂得關心別人，有禮貌和有修養。
想成為一個人見人愛的女仔，妳要留意下面十點:
- 忌粗魯 - 豪爽與粗魯是不同的，不要以為翹腳、叉腰、走路跨大步、分開兩腿坐就是為人爽直的表現。爽朗是內在性格的表現，不斤斤計較、不拘於小事、不亂發脾氣、大方兼有量度，這才是真正的爽朗。
- 忌無理取鬧 - 男孩最怕就是女孩太小器，小小事就鬧個不停。例如男方在街上四處張望，女方就罵他張望其他女孩; 又例如男方沒有空在約定時間打電話給女方，女方便以為男方欺騙自己，不知去了哪兒等等。這麼無理取鬧，試問又有誰能夠忍受得了？
- 忌揮霍 - 無論你亂用他的或自己的錢，任何一個男孩都會因為你亂花錢而覺得你是個很難服待的女孩，將來賺多少錢都會被妳花清光，因而怕了妳。
- 忌污糟邋遢 - 如果頭髮「油淋淋」，手指甲鑲了黑邊，衣服發出異味的人，真是人見人怕。若果一個女孩子是這樣，試問又怎會有男孩子喜歡呢?其實每個人都一定會有一點體味，因比最好用少許清涼的香水。
- 忌吸煙 - 十個男孩有九個都不喜歡自己的女友吸煙，就算他無所謂，但也寧願她不抽煙較好。有些男孩更規定自己一定不會選擇吸煙的女孩為女朋友。況且吸煙危害健康，為自己著想都不應該。
- 忌衣著過份性感 - 衣著打扮是一個人的性格表現，若是經常穿低胸衣服，或作性感打扮，便會予人不正經的感覺，甚至讓人誤會好穿那麼少布的衣服是想色誘別人吧！
- 忌吱吱喳喳 - 經常吱吱喳喳，永遠有說不完的話，你的男朋友一定覺得很煩，簡直是製造噪音。而且他一定不喜歡帶你去見的朋友，一來妳那麼多言，隨時會把他的私隱也說了出來，又或者不停追問他朋友有關他的事。
- 忌粗言穢語 - 一開口便是粗言穢語，不但難聽，更顯示出好是沒有教養的人。那些斯文有禮、有內涵、有學識的男孩子一定不會選擇。
- 忌嚕囌 - 經常在耳邊嚕嚕囌囌叫他這樣叫他那樣，會給男孩子無形的壓力。他本身可能已經有工作上或者學業上的壓力，若再過分要求他，他會透不過氣來。不但會覺得好很煩，而且會對好生厭。
- 忌過分約束 - 忌過分約束每個人也有自己的私人空間，基本上每個男孩子都喜歡有一些只屬於他與朋友的時間，若果好硬要他24小時陪著妳，又或者埋怨他常陪朋友, 又不准他去，總之任何事都要受妳約束，那麼到最後，他一定忍受不了。
- 所以話呢，女仔比男仔辛苦很多啦，男仔記得要愛惜身邊的女孩啦！
7 則留言:
我覺得人唔肯去面對同承認自己o既缺點有兩個原因:
1) 過份自信。覺得人哋話自己o既缺點唔係一個缺點，所以冇必要去承認/改。
2) 害怕/冇信心。冇膽去面對自己的缺點，所以去逃避。
認左.. 會好冇面~
唔認種冇面啦! 因為人地會在後面笑你低能~
1st question: 點樣面對同承認呢?
o First, you have to truly admit that you have that weakness inside you, without taking blame on other people or things.
o Second, do not feel discouraged since no one is perfect, and a step to perfection is a mind for corrections. Try to make up for what you have done wrong in the past instead of running away.
o Third, think of the consequences that would happen if you don't change it quickly, for example hurting other people around you or losing trust from your loved ones.
o Fourth, think of the ways or steps you can take to make the changes.
o Fifth, make sure you are really taking "physical" actions and not actions from your mind or mouth.
o Sixth, do not expect people you have hurted to forgive you immediately, since it takes time for them to see your real changes and accept you back.
2nd question: 點解面對同承認係咁難呢?
o Self-centred and like to make external blames (this makes the person feels more comfortable, since accusing others to change instead of him/herself).
o No motivations or encouragements for them to make the changes.
o Blinded or not mature enough to see own faults.
o Low self-esteem and being pessimistic that even if they decide to change, they don't think the outcome will change any better.
the things is. even u admit. u can't change it. because you is you. maybe u can change because of a thing happened just to accomodate that but after that.. u're back to normal (or bad..LOL).
there is no perfect in this world...sometimes..it's not necessary to admit nor face it because we can't help it anywaz.
Angel Hair
I don't think that is true, Ms. Angel Hair. If you know something is wrong, and everybody say that you do, you have to do something about it though. I know nobody is perfect and we all have our own 缺點s. But you still need to try and correct it; regardless how hard it is. Eventually at the end, it will harm you and the people around who love you very much. Isn't it?
I'm not saying we won't change . we'll change but it won't last forever. because we can't change our personality no matter what. and we can't deny our bads is part of our personality. everybody have something that they can't change... but maybe just slightly improved because of loving someone, or something happened.
Angel Hair
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