大家覺得男 or 女人五大需要係咩呢?
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繁忙生活中的休憩の間
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Russell Peters 香港
豐田汽車
三十秒
想成為一個好男仔，就要留意下面六點:
- 不打女人 - 任何男性出手打女人都是最差勁的行為。就算女朋友做錯事，最多與對方理論，動手打人是不可原諒的，返而是最失敗的男人。
- 有上進心 - 男孩子讀書成績差並不是甚麼問題，反而有沒有上進心，會不會為自己的前途鋪路，才是女孩子最關心的。女孩子最怕是有一個沒有責任心，一點也不可靠的男朋友。
- 有吸引力 - 男孩子不一定要俊朗才有女孩子垂青，反而一個有型有格的孩子，比一個樣靚但土氣的男孩子更有吸引力。所說的有型有格不是一定要緊貼潮流，打扮入時，而是他的打扮衣著配合他本身的外型及性格，這樣便能散發出他的型格來，自然能夠吸引喜歡他那類型的女孩子了!!
- 忌多言、炫耀 - 最怕男人老狗口水多不斷炫耀自己有多威風多富有，認識很多有地位的人。這種男人一看便知只有一張咀，信不過，又嚕囌，正常的好女孩都會怕了你!!
- 有男子氣概 - 真正的男人是要保護女性，不要怕事，要有勇氣去承擔後果，有主見和責任感，可以保護身邊的女孩子，予人有安全感，這才是男子氣概的表現。
- 有風度 - 男孩子一定要有 Gentleman 風度，風度是一個人細心的表現， 對對方照顧周到，關懷備至是男孩子應該做的，這不是刻意討好，而是基本禮儀。 一個人有風度的話，其實正表示他懂得關心別人，有禮貌和有修養。
想成為一個人見人愛的女仔，妳要留意下面十點:
- 忌粗魯 - 豪爽與粗魯是不同的，不要以為翹腳、叉腰、走路跨大步、分開兩腿坐就是為人爽直的表現。爽朗是內在性格的表現，不斤斤計較、不拘於小事、不亂發脾氣、大方兼有量度，這才是真正的爽朗。
- 忌無理取鬧 - 男孩最怕就是女孩太小器，小小事就鬧個不停。例如男方在街上四處張望，女方就罵他張望其他女孩; 又例如男方沒有空在約定時間打電話給女方，女方便以為男方欺騙自己，不知去了哪兒等等。這麼無理取鬧，試問又有誰能夠忍受得了？
- 忌揮霍 - 無論你亂用他的或自己的錢，任何一個男孩都會因為你亂花錢而覺得你是個很難服待的女孩，將來賺多少錢都會被妳花清光，因而怕了妳。
- 忌污糟邋遢 - 如果頭髮「油淋淋」，手指甲鑲了黑邊，衣服發出異味的人，真是人見人怕。若果一個女孩子是這樣，試問又怎會有男孩子喜歡呢?其實每個人都一定會有一點體味，因比最好用少許清涼的香水。
- 忌吸煙 - 十個男孩有九個都不喜歡自己的女友吸煙，就算他無所謂，但也寧願她不抽煙較好。有些男孩更規定自己一定不會選擇吸煙的女孩為女朋友。況且吸煙危害健康，為自己著想都不應該。
- 忌衣著過份性感 - 衣著打扮是一個人的性格表現，若是經常穿低胸衣服，或作性感打扮，便會予人不正經的感覺，甚至讓人誤會好穿那麼少布的衣服是想色誘別人吧！
- 忌吱吱喳喳 - 經常吱吱喳喳，永遠有說不完的話，你的男朋友一定覺得很煩，簡直是製造噪音。而且他一定不喜歡帶你去見的朋友，一來妳那麼多言，隨時會把他的私隱也說了出來，又或者不停追問他朋友有關他的事。
- 忌粗言穢語 - 一開口便是粗言穢語，不但難聽，更顯示出好是沒有教養的人。那些斯文有禮、有內涵、有學識的男孩子一定不會選擇。
- 忌嚕囌 - 經常在耳邊嚕嚕囌囌叫他這樣叫他那樣，會給男孩子無形的壓力。他本身可能已經有工作上或者學業上的壓力，若再過分要求他，他會透不過氣來。不但會覺得好很煩，而且會對好生厭。
- 忌過分約束 - 忌過分約束每個人也有自己的私人空間，基本上每個男孩子都喜歡有一些只屬於他與朋友的時間，若果好硬要他24小時陪著妳，又或者埋怨他常陪朋友, 又不准他去，總之任何事都要受妳約束，那麼到最後，他一定忍受不了。
- 所以話呢，女仔比男仔辛苦很多啦，男仔記得要愛惜身邊的女孩啦！
20 則留言:
排名不分先後：
- Love
- Sex
- Money
- Power
- Pride
- Family including mom and dad
- Freedom
- Money
- Love
- good personality/ehtics
Angel Hair
- Money
- Power
- Love
- Sex
- More Money => More Power => More Love <=> More Sex
Why don't we make it more interesting by asking women what men needs and vice versa. :)
-family
-friends
-love & sex
-religion or spirituality
-success
我個人覺得女人需要有/係:
- 聰明
- 熱情
- 活潑
- 好身材
- 夠靚
唔要得既女人會係:
- 貪錢
- 八婆
- 老醜
- 爛賭
- FOO淺
women, 1 being the most important need:
1) Love
2) Money
3) Beauty
4) Friends
5) Career
男人:
1) 事業
2) 女人 (?????)
2) 上進心
3) 真心朋友
4) 克己 + 復禮
5) 捱得
Let's make it even more interesting! What do you think the opposite sex would want themselves to be / have?
I am a female....
I think men's top 5 needs are:
(#1 being the most important)
1) Career
2) Love (includes: wife & children & family - note: NOT including girlfriends!!!
3) Money
4) Pride!!! Showing off / FACE!!!
5) Leisure: their stupid hobbies / collection / cars / watching Sports!!!
1) 唔會太 emotional driven
2) 唔會太肥
3) 帶個腦出街/懂得思考分析
4) 穩定職業
5) 有一個(正常的) 家庭 =)
男
1. 女人 (阿芝)
2. 家庭
3. 自由
4. 一個溫暖的懷抱
5. 性 (有愛個隻)
女人五大需要:
1) 一個合式自己又愛自己o既男人
2) 一個溫暖o既家庭
3) 穩定o既生活
4) 要有目標
5) 安全感
♂♂♂♂♂ Career
♂♂♂♂ Girlfriend/Wife
♂♂♂ Family
♂♂ God
♂ Friendship
I don't understand why Ms. Frances Kwong would say men's hobbies/collection/cars/watching sports are *STUPID*? Could you please justify?
I don't think you have the right to call them stupid, just as we (men) don't have the right say women are stupidly spending all those stupid money to buy beautiful clothes, shoes, bags and etc.
You have to understand that nobody is perfect and the fact that both men and women have different value systems. The bottom line is, if you can't tolerate your man's *STUPID* hobbies, you might as well go find a better one, otherwise, don't expect your man to tolerate your behavior as well (Well, okay, not unless you are perfect).
I didn't say that men are stupid, I said their the hobbies are stupid, and MR. MING, that was mostly meant to be 'humourous' in that remark, since I think this topic was for the opposite sex to express their feelings, good way to discuss any stereotypes between the sexes. "Stupid hobbies" and a man being perfect or not are totally 2 different topics, u totally got the wrong idea guy, u're making this blog page so serious, can't u just put up some women stereotype and we'll laugh about it. Why don't u go express your feelings in some other social/political issue blog page, CHILL OUT, geez...
I think Ming as a gentleman u should not argue with a lady anymore and furthermore you comments were so naived. You dun even understand women at all. So get a life!
Told you this is going to be an interesting topic. This completely proof that men doesn't understand women, and women doesn't understand men neither.
But firstly, I would like to apologize about my over-reaction. Secondly, I would like to apologize sincerely about my stupidity for not understanding an offensive humor. Technically, I don’t call this an argument; I would say this is more of a discussion. After all, although I don’t have any of the hobbies that you mention, I still don’t quite understand why Frances would say they are stupid? Is it because you don’t understand men enough (in terms of their hobbies or whatever)? Or you just personally don’t like those hobbies; hence you think they are stupid?
All right, so a man not arguing with a woman is called a gentleman; what about a woman arguing with a man? Not-a-lady? Well, I do believe argument doesn’t solve anything, but I also believe that everybody (man or woman) should stand up for what they believe. Mary you maybe right I don’t understand all women, but I do understand 2 women (my mom and my fiancée). By the way, thanks for reminding though, I do have a life and I don’t need another. :P
I think I better stop now before 阿謙 and 阿芝 hate me for disturbing the peace. So everybody please keep blogging and I’ll keep my mouth shut for now.
Woman arguing with a man is definately 'not-a-lady' and could be called even worse if they don't make sense, but all depends on WHO STARTED to challenge who first, in this case, ah-hemmm....you...
Anyways, this blog thing is fun afterall...
P.S. enjoy your lady while she "stupidly spending all those stupid money to buy beautiful clothes, shoes, bags and etc. "
(^_^)
You are such a LADY. Lucky my fiancee doesn't do that. Even if she does, I think it's well worth it. 女為悅己者容，你吾恨得今多。So for sure I will enjoy it. Thanks for caring. ^(oo)^
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